Conflicts in marriage are something that is going to take is inevitable. Sometimes we enter into marriage with false expectations and reality comes when we face frustration, discouragement and even separation. There are several factors that cause economic problems, different characters, different tastes, cultural backgrounds and so on. The issue is knowing how to deal with so that our relationship emerges stronger after the conflict.
A. Consider the differences
1. Gender
2.
temperament 3. Family background
4. Cultural background
B. Establish a good communication
1. Be willing to listen and not respond until the couple finished speaking.
Pr 18:13 2. Do not prepare your response while "listening" to what they say.
3. Do not expect, better listen ...
4. Think first instead of rushing through his words. Pr 15:28; 21:23; 29:20
5. Do not use the silence to annoy.
6. Explain clearly why the time to answer questions.
7. Talk so your partner can understand and accept what he says. Pr 15:23
C. Have a clean fight
1. You can display without offending disagree.
Pr 15:1 2. Attack the problem, not the couple
3. Focus on one problem at a time. Do not remove things from the past.
4. Firmness in the matter, gentle way "Pr 15:15
5. Do not" hammer "Pr 17:9 b
6. Prohibited shouting insults and
7. Do not use the" weapon of choice "
8. If the matter is complicated, open a space for the truce. Pr 17:14
9. Decide in advance when to end an argument. Pr 20:3
10. Give the offense a treatment that allows you to create communication links.
11. Recognizes his mistake and apologize
Pr 28:13 12. Sorry (70 times 7), Pr 17:9 to
D. Get yourself a good árbrito
Best of all is God. He does not want that marriage is a thing "as it comes." It is not within the plan that marriages disintegrate, or that the children are marked and hurt by the divorce. Not even his desire that marriages are bored, pleasure and no joy on the couple. He has provided in His Word, specific instructions for couples so that households are stable, full of peace and that marriages are growing in a deep and intimate relationship (Genesis 2:24) God also
left his assistants, ministers of the gospel. Their work is to help them reconcile, heal and strengthen your marriage, that your home becomes an oasis of peace and that in time you be used mightily by God to bless other partners and thus have strong families and a powerful nation. Your decision will work correctly with the help of God, to live the abundant life He has for us
A. Consider the differences
1. Gender
2.
temperament 3. Family background
4. Cultural background
B. Establish a good communication
1. Be willing to listen and not respond until the couple finished speaking.
Pr 18:13 2. Do not prepare your response while "listening" to what they say.
3. Do not expect, better listen ...
4. Think first instead of rushing through his words. Pr 15:28; 21:23; 29:20
5. Do not use the silence to annoy.
6. Explain clearly why the time to answer questions.
7. Talk so your partner can understand and accept what he says. Pr 15:23
C. Have a clean fight
1. You can display without offending disagree.
Pr 15:1 2. Attack the problem, not the couple
3. Focus on one problem at a time. Do not remove things from the past.
4. Firmness in the matter, gentle way "Pr 15:15
5. Do not" hammer "Pr 17:9 b
6. Prohibited shouting insults and
7. Do not use the" weapon of choice "
8. If the matter is complicated, open a space for the truce. Pr 17:14
9. Decide in advance when to end an argument. Pr 20:3
10. Give the offense a treatment that allows you to create communication links.
11. Recognizes his mistake and apologize
Pr 28:13 12. Sorry (70 times 7), Pr 17:9 to
D. Get yourself a good árbrito
Best of all is God. He does not want that marriage is a thing "as it comes." It is not within the plan that marriages disintegrate, or that the children are marked and hurt by the divorce. Not even his desire that marriages are bored, pleasure and no joy on the couple. He has provided in His Word, specific instructions for couples so that households are stable, full of peace and that marriages are growing in a deep and intimate relationship (Genesis 2:24) God also
left his assistants, ministers of the gospel. Their work is to help them reconcile, heal and strengthen your marriage, that your home becomes an oasis of peace and that in time you be used mightily by God to bless other partners and thus have strong families and a powerful nation. Your decision will work correctly with the help of God, to live the abundant life He has for us