Communication in marriage is to express or transmit freely the thoughts, concerns, problems, doubts, simply and honestly, having a spouse a good receiver. It is essential for success in our relations. Without communication you get nowhere, the smallest of the relationships needed for effective communication to take place. Dialogue is to love what blood is to the body. When the dialog disappears, love dies and is born of resentment and hatred. Restore dialogue can restore life to a dead relationship. STAGES 1. Communication peripheral or tangential . Is communication that only scratches the orange, which is limited to questions of external events or third parties.
2. It expresses when you think about an event or situation political, religious or otherwise. We need to penetrate the skin of the orange, the skin sometimes a little hard that covers and protects.
3. It is when we open our hearts. That thin white skin that covers the segments of orange, smooth but bitter, is the expression of feelings. When we begin to open our hearts to a deeper communication, expressing emotions, "I am only", "I have Problems, "" I have failed and it hurts me, "I was very happy to see our son play today, situations often arise bitter and difficult to handle, we do not like your partner is aware of our weaknesses and fears, our fragile areas,
4. Is to reach the level of agreement and mutual aid. is the dialogue about the intentions and major life decisions in common: love, fidelity, children. The pulp of the orange. Communication deep, sincere and intimate knowledge that allows all our areas not hide anything from our partner, is just the dark areas, there is no secret that our couples must not know, say how we feel in different situations, express what we want, what we like or dislike about our relationship, whether behaviors that are repeated, uncontrolled habits and even our sexual situations that are often not mention a lack of communication or not having learned to communicate from heart to heart. The word tells us that Adam and Eve were naked and not ashamed, they were transparent, their hearts were open to each other. INGREDIENTS
1. Play , Proverbs 18:13 James 1:19
2. "Looking at yourself" while talking
3. Repeat
4. Reply
5. Adapt the behavior to the word
6. Courage
7. Positive spirit
8. Sincere search for truth
UNDERSTANDING THE 5 LANGUAGES OF LOVE Eph. 5:25, Titus 2:4
Gary Chapman wrote a book with this title and describe the 5 ways to communicate in love for our family, each of us has its own language and to the extent that we know about ourselves and of our family we can improve our levels of communication.
1. Words of affirmation
2.
Quality Time 3. Receive Gifts
4.
5 Acts of Service. Physical touch
Gary Chapman wrote a book with this title and describe the 5 ways to communicate in love for our family, each of us has its own language and to the extent that we know about ourselves and of our family we can improve our levels of communication.
1. Words of affirmation
2.
Quality Time 3. Receive Gifts
4.
5 Acts of Service. Physical touch
communication generally will not be a strength on both sides of the couple, this would then require that anyone who is better in this area helps the couple to improve their levels of communication. It takes time, patience, effort and practice. Personally as a male was very uncommunicative, but since we were dating, my wife trained in the art and have advanced progressively. Consider what level you are and give an additional step to arrives at the deepest level of communication.
DETAIL MISSING
Reaching deeper level of communication and healthy is a challenge, but you may, Jesus said, "what that man is impossible, for God is entirely possible (and also for those who believe). God is the greatest communicator, the communicator par excellence É l has spoken to us through all times in different ways, as the writer of the Epistle to the Hebrews, and in these last days he has spoken by the Son = Jesus. God can help us to communicate at the deepest level, to be transparent, patient, honest, positive, etc.. all it takes to be a good communicator. Jesus said, "Without me ye can do nothing." Communicate with God and learn the art of communication, contact the 2 in prayer to God and learn what is to be a blessing to each other and to those around them in this vital aspect in our families.
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