Confirmation Letter To Priest

DETERIORATE FAMILIES WITH LOVE DOUBLE B

1. Do not know how to handle large and small differences, Amos 3:3, Song of Solomon 2:15, Psalm 133:1
We differ in objective, interests and daily habits, day by day, are generating a succession of small conflicts which we do not know appropriately manage will affect our relationship as partners. According to nature that, in those areas will not get very far as a couple or family. No need to be large differences can be small things that are constantly repeated and often cause more damage than our major differences.
2. Do not know how to handle personal and family growth, Det. 32:30
paraphrase, one can beat but 2 1.000 10,000. This indicates that once together with a growth potential 10 times greater than they had when they were alone. But all growth brings its problems, we need a bigger house, caring for children, meeting the needs of food, education, health, etc. When you do not know how to handle this growth, then that hurts the relationship, we lose sight of couples and cease to be spouses for parents or professionals, friends, ministers, etc. BASE lose that led us to achieve what we have now. It was because I joined with my partner now I have what I have achieved and when I lose that base, sooner or later the rest is me going down.
3. Negative communication, Job 42:3-5
not only the lack of communication (which is better known) is what brings the communication problems but no, it's a bad way to communicate. It has to do with the basis of assumptions or prejudices about which I interpret what the other person think I meant. For example if part of the couple not allowed to speak to each other, and constantly interrupting to talk about it and continue arguing their position.
4. Sexual Dissatisfaction, 1 Corinthians 7:3-5.

This is one of the things that the Bible plays with wisdom and tackles it from Genesis to enter the order setting to enjoy it, Genesis 2:24-25, he lays out the principles for maximum enjoyment in a book dedicated to Topic (Song of Songs) and sanctified in the Pauline epistles comparing the relationship between Christ and the Church, 1 Corinthians 6:15-20. Unfortunately it is an area that not only creates problems, but also the least talked about at the level of partner.
5. Lack of definition in the roles that each must fulfill in the home, 1 Sam. 1
The distribution of the burdens of household tasks, always leads to conflict. Today, women demand equality in housework and men are generally reluctant to accept.
6. Economic problems, Psalm 127
The economic crisis affecting many conflicts at home because of family. In many households do not know how to handle this situation and make the wrong decisions that both have to go to work and have no time for dialogue and parenting. Moreover, the advancement of society in technology, science, modernity and the desire to be "updated" with these new demands created each day updating responsibilities economic and falls in consumerism.
7. Acting out of fear of God, Psalm 127:1-5, Gal. 5:19-21
infidelity, jealousy, atmosphere of sin, anger, arguments, resentments, etc.. We can not inherit the blessings of God, his great and precious promises with that lifestyle.

While these problems are the most commonly expressed at the level of couples, it is also true that God has given us the ability to overcome them. It is best to act early and prevent them closing the doors against any of these evils, as always, the Bible shows us the right attitude in every situation. You need to work in teams, husband and wife acting together in a responsible obedience to the Word of God.