After saving one of the most important things is to keep a very good relationship. The Bible compares our relationship with God as our relationship with our spouse and our relationship with God should be excellent, our relationship with our spouse should be such as to be a good example of our relationship with God. We make the mistake of believing that we have a good relationship with our spouse because we live together, work and because once in a while we left to go but Revelation 2:1-7 shows us that one can be very accurate, very careful, very persistent very experienced, very correct but very out of love for our partner. According
Deut. 6:4-6, the key to a good relationship with God is not behaving well or doing good works, but is love, bone, is a disposition of the heart, not outside. It is easy to "prove" that we love God, but do not love him in spirit and in truth, John 4:23, also happens in our relationship with our partner. May God help us to be spouses who do not pretend or lie in his love, but love of truth, with the intensity of his first love.
I. WHAT IS THE FIRST LOVE
A. It is not meet order, discipline and forcefully with our responsibilities,
Apoc. 2:2 "I know your deeds, your hard work and patience"
B. It is my ability to realize about things that may be damaging my marriage , Apoc. 2:2 "and can not tolerate wicked men, and have tested those who call themselves apostles and are not, and have found them liars "
C. is not our ability to "support" our partner or to express a self-sacrificing resistance to the crisis, Apoc. 2:3 "and has suffered, and hast patience, and have labored for My name, and hast not fainted."
II. WHAT IS THE FIRST LOVE
When we fell in love with our wives and we started going out with them, in fact until the wedding and for a period then we do special things, beautiful and good for them. Constantly tell them that we love. We do things funny and illogical only to express to them our love. We care about them and we're always thinking about as nice. We feel an incredible freedom in our love for them.
A. Honesty
The couple and the newlyweds, they love each other with an unfeigned love, Jer. 2:2, "thus saith the Lord:" I remember you, the loyalty of your youth, the love of your engagement. " Love comes naturally, without effort, without pressure.
B. Enthusiasm
Whole In the original implies, emotion, burning desire. It is awaiting his word of affection, a smile, a glance, a phone call. The time seems very short and very long presence in his absence, life revolves around when will the next meeting with the beloved. We discovered more generous and dumps than ever satisfy, surprise and please the other becomes the greatest illusion.
C. Privacy perspective
You want to be the maximum possible time with the loved one, add it to our world, our lives. It seeks contact through the skin, eyes, finds its close, feel their energy. We spent hours and hours and hours walking the streets of our city under the stars at night, holding hands and talking. We spend so much time together, getting to know to each other and developing that love so beautiful and unique, which God put us together to enjoy. Not being in love than I can receive, but in love with the same person.
III. FIRST LOVE LOST BUT NOT LEFT
Apoc. 2:4 says that what God has against us is that we left our first love. If you still love our husband or wife, but we stopped them our first love. We left the simplicity and freedom of being in love, we no longer continue to open our hearts more and more to receive the love, and we left the keep on expressing our love. The difference is that forgetting does not imply an intentional action, having left them.
But how, when and why it happened? The answer is motivated by certain attitudes, experiences, words that we see or live with your partner, we were making decisions to go leaving our first love. In other words, faced with unpleasant situations that we experience with our partner, we often make decisions that amount to be leaving our first love: "This man does not deserve the attention that I give," "not want to have more back to life sex with (her) "," no more going to trust this man ", etc.
IV. BACK TO FIRST LOVE
The message is clear and as Rev., 2:5 are 3 things that have to do:
1. Remember where we have fallen
As noted earlier, there was something that made us leave our first love, we must identify and resolve this situation because while there will be like a fire ashes off when lighting a flame again
love 2. repent
This indicates 2 things, first is repentance before God and our partner because we break the covenant of marriage we had done (in good times and bad, in sickness and in health, I promise to love him (a) till death do us part. The other sense of regret is like changing way of thinking, if I keep thinking that I have every right to leave the comments of my first love because I did not like something, it will be very difficult to build a relationship
3. Back to do the first works
Resume everything we did when we experienced our first love, (but remember that this step is in third place), if only we take this step and not the other, faster than slow again disappoint and close our hearts. If loyalty and obedience began to do the first works, God will put the respective feelings. CONCLUSION
is impossible to maintain a relationship growing partner in our hearts if we have a "double-minded" and we'll only be fooling ourselves, that we have a good family relationship and will be exposed more vulnerable to attacks from the devil.
Deut. 6:4-6, the key to a good relationship with God is not behaving well or doing good works, but is love, bone, is a disposition of the heart, not outside. It is easy to "prove" that we love God, but do not love him in spirit and in truth, John 4:23, also happens in our relationship with our partner. May God help us to be spouses who do not pretend or lie in his love, but love of truth, with the intensity of his first love.
I. WHAT IS THE FIRST LOVE
A. It is not meet order, discipline and forcefully with our responsibilities,
Apoc. 2:2 "I know your deeds, your hard work and patience"
B. It is my ability to realize about things that may be damaging my marriage , Apoc. 2:2 "and can not tolerate wicked men, and have tested those who call themselves apostles and are not, and have found them liars "
C. is not our ability to "support" our partner or to express a self-sacrificing resistance to the crisis, Apoc. 2:3 "and has suffered, and hast patience, and have labored for My name, and hast not fainted."
II. WHAT IS THE FIRST LOVE
When we fell in love with our wives and we started going out with them, in fact until the wedding and for a period then we do special things, beautiful and good for them. Constantly tell them that we love. We do things funny and illogical only to express to them our love. We care about them and we're always thinking about as nice. We feel an incredible freedom in our love for them.
A. Honesty
The couple and the newlyweds, they love each other with an unfeigned love, Jer. 2:2, "thus saith the Lord:" I remember you, the loyalty of your youth, the love of your engagement. " Love comes naturally, without effort, without pressure.
B. Enthusiasm
Whole In the original implies, emotion, burning desire. It is awaiting his word of affection, a smile, a glance, a phone call. The time seems very short and very long presence in his absence, life revolves around when will the next meeting with the beloved. We discovered more generous and dumps than ever satisfy, surprise and please the other becomes the greatest illusion.
C. Privacy perspective
You want to be the maximum possible time with the loved one, add it to our world, our lives. It seeks contact through the skin, eyes, finds its close, feel their energy. We spent hours and hours and hours walking the streets of our city under the stars at night, holding hands and talking. We spend so much time together, getting to know to each other and developing that love so beautiful and unique, which God put us together to enjoy. Not being in love than I can receive, but in love with the same person.
III. FIRST LOVE LOST BUT NOT LEFT
Apoc. 2:4 says that what God has against us is that we left our first love. If you still love our husband or wife, but we stopped them our first love. We left the simplicity and freedom of being in love, we no longer continue to open our hearts more and more to receive the love, and we left the keep on expressing our love. The difference is that forgetting does not imply an intentional action, having left them.
But how, when and why it happened? The answer is motivated by certain attitudes, experiences, words that we see or live with your partner, we were making decisions to go leaving our first love. In other words, faced with unpleasant situations that we experience with our partner, we often make decisions that amount to be leaving our first love: "This man does not deserve the attention that I give," "not want to have more back to life sex with (her) "," no more going to trust this man ", etc.
IV. BACK TO FIRST LOVE
The message is clear and as Rev., 2:5 are 3 things that have to do:
1. Remember where we have fallen
As noted earlier, there was something that made us leave our first love, we must identify and resolve this situation because while there will be like a fire ashes off when lighting a flame again
love 2. repent
This indicates 2 things, first is repentance before God and our partner because we break the covenant of marriage we had done (in good times and bad, in sickness and in health, I promise to love him (a) till death do us part. The other sense of regret is like changing way of thinking, if I keep thinking that I have every right to leave the comments of my first love because I did not like something, it will be very difficult to build a relationship
3. Back to do the first works
Resume everything we did when we experienced our first love, (but remember that this step is in third place), if only we take this step and not the other, faster than slow again disappoint and close our hearts. If loyalty and obedience began to do the first works, God will put the respective feelings. CONCLUSION
is impossible to maintain a relationship growing partner in our hearts if we have a "double-minded" and we'll only be fooling ourselves, that we have a good family relationship and will be exposed more vulnerable to attacks from the devil.
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